Well,
StrengthFinder test reiterates many of the things I (and most people) already know about me:
- I like to use big words
- I like to learn things about people and find the good in people around which I spend time. "You might overlook some negative traits to discover praiseworthy ones." Bingo.
- I like to learn things in general (the process is more exciting than the outcome)
- People feel comfortable asking me what things mean
- I read a lot
- I have an need to know why. "Sometimes you are frustrated until you figure out why things happened the way they did." True.
- I get bored when I'm not learning sometimes. "You attempt to avoid people and situations that prevent you from expanding your mind." True.
- "Chances are good that you periodically engage others in conversation about the meaning of
life." Okay, that's a bit of a stretch, but I do tend to favor substantial dialogue over superficial chit-chat.
For three of these five strengths, it is suggested that I should be involved in teaching, journalism/literature, and something in which I get new information often, preferably from contact with other people. Apparently the "woo" talent means that I'm great at making small talk, but the "intellection" talent means I secretly think it's a waste of time, which is pretty funny, because both are true. I generally like talking to people, because I like learning about people, but it's annoying to always have to start with basics, when I more and more often just want to say things more directly (and therefore rudely).
For instance, at work I may be on the phone with someone who is describing their challenge, and while I'm trying to understand their specific problem, at the same time I'm often trying to contextualize this problem to find out if this is a direct result or indirect result. What I (or my company) may do for them will probably be the same, but I may also be able to make a comment about the way they talk to X would prevent this from happening again, or when they failed to do Y, it created the same challenge they saw last time. This patterning thing comes from the "ideation" talent, and the "input" talent ties directly to the "learner" talent which both crave information, new information, on a regular basis. It points out that I probably learn best by teaching, which is also mostly true, and often the best way for me to put my knowledge to use. A combination of a small amount of reflection coupled with being able to teach it to others is the best for me, as a rule. I remember writing essays or such for teachers, and imagining that I was having to explain to them that I knew this and they didn't, which often made it far easier to write the paper.
I think I've always written as if I'm talking to someone, even in my journaling. I often think that way as well... to the outside observer, it probably seems as though I'm talking to myself. Strictly speaking, sure, I am. But in my head, there is another person there. I'm not explaining something to me, I'm explaining it to him, or her, or you... though, I'm sure in a way that's also my brain's way of explaining it to me. Anytime I've ever really thought/acted as though I was talking to myself, though, I felt silly. Didn't I, Self? I sure did, Self.
At the end of each section describing the abovementioned talents, it asks questions like "As you read your personalized strengths insights, what words, phrases, or lines stand out to you?" Many of those I've listed above. It also asks, though, What will you do differently tomorrow as a result of knowing these things? Honestly, tomorrow, probably nothing different, since it's Grand Old Day and I'm going to go ahead and have mimosas and breakfast burritos with my friends and walk down the avenue like it ain't no thang. However, in general, I feel like I should make more concrete changes. I'm still looking to find new opportunities at work, even though mobility in our corporation is at a standstill and my ambition level is moderate to low, as per usual. But those are excuses, and I should really be doing something more constructive with my time.
So Monday. I should be back on here, reflecting on the talents more, and to what use I should be putting them. Huzzah. Here I go.